Family
History
This speech was delivered on the occasion
of the 50th wedding anniversary of Yosef Wolf (Zev) Schreiber and
Miriam Bracha (nee: Friedman) Schreiber, by their son Aaron M. Schreiber,
on the eve of Chanukah in the year 1944.
The Bible tells us "and thou shall number seven Sabbaths of years unto
thee, seven times seven years,"--
It was the first night of Chanukah and the last day of our
parent's "Sheva
Brachot", exactly 50 years ago one Sunday night in the year 1894.
Many an event took place during each of the seven 7-yr. periods that followed.
The first three
years of the first 7-yr. period found "Papa" as we
are wont to call our father, engaged in furtherance of his studies of the Law
in the Bet Hamidrash of his home town synagogue and living on "Kest" with
his wife, in the home of his in-laws, Naphtali Friedman's. There they had all
their meals. However, their sleeping quarters were eight blocks away in a one
room apartment that was given to them, rent free, by "Fetter Mendel" who
was mother's grandfather's brother. The room was very meagerly furnished
with no water in the room. The lavatory was in a field about a hundred
feet away.
On January 10 of the fourth year, A.H. was born. It was now
time to earn a living. Of a five-room house, rented by
his in-laws, two rooms were
given the
Schreiber’s, one of which became a grocery store. Merchandise came on
credit -Papa had lost almost all his "Noddin" in a partnership trying
to raise sheep, but all the poor sheep died. Business was poor for the merchandise
was also sold on credit - nobody paid on time. Hardly two years went by and
Papa already had to start taking a good portion of the stock for his own use,
for there now was another mouth to feed; Sam was born. The latter part of the
sixth year of this first period found business growing from bad to worse. To
top it all, the Schreiber’s had a whole house on their hands, for the
Friedman’s, together with two daughters - Aunt Pearl and Aunt Fanny,
left for the golden land of opportunity - America.
Our father was now convinced that grocery business on credit
was no good. There had to be some other means of livelihood.
He thought his
problems were
over
when promised the retail concession of the town bar. Such was not
his good fortune, because a week before he was to take
over, after neglecting
the
grocery almost completely, the concession was given to the newly
arrived brother-in-law
of the promisor. Then and there he made up his mind to come to America.
Actually, Papa was left high and dry with two children and
a wife on his hands. Mama immediately took all her linens,
together with
Papa's "Talit" with
its silver ornaments, and ran all over town trying to borrow $ 50 to
get Papa to London, but no luck. On her way home, dejected, with tears
in her
eyes,
she met the wife of the husband who was boarding in Grandpa Friedman's
house in America, who loaned her $ 50, but took only the linens as security.
Four
days later Papa, with an overnight bag, left the town of Zboro, a village
of 500 people, situated on the outskirts of Bardfeldt, then Hungary now
Slovakia;
thus ended the first 7-yr. period.
Papa reached Vienna, where he spent "Shabbes". From there,
he went to Hamburg where a ticket was purchased for the boat ride to
London.
Half starved
and with not a cent left to his name, Papa boarded the boat, his eyes
all filled up because he was unable to buy bread that was being offered
for
sale at the
dock. The boat was much worse than present day ferries. Seats were arranged
in a bench-like manner alongside of the boat. The berths were tiers,
one on top of each other. The food was black bread and black coffee.
It was
the first
night of Chanukah then and the man who brought candles along gave Papa
the honor of lighting them for all - certainly a pleasant start for the
second
period.
The boat ride took three days and two nights before finally
reaching London where, at a cousin's house, he was to await
the receipt
of a ticket for America.
This soon came, together with $5.00, which took him to Liverpool
- an overnight ride from London. How he actually got there
could almost
be a book. After
all, he was a foreigner, from a small village, in a strange
modern city who had
to travel by subway to the train depot and then from Liverpool
to the dock, where a small boat was to take him to the Main
Liner and,
as
luck would have
it, it rained all the time. Suffice it to say, he finally boarded
the boat all washed up. It was Christmas time and an elaborate
dinner was
being served.
In contrast, Papa got a pail of herring and bread instead,
which food was his for the remainder of the trip. He was
very fortunate
though,
since the
Liner
was a very beautiful ship and he had a room all to himself.
Everybody was nice to him and tried to bring him food,
which he naturally
turned down.
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